March 2026 · Tom Riggs
Why One-Size-Fits-All Selling Doesn't Work
Buyers make decisions differently. Recognizing those patterns in real time and adjusting how you sell is the single most impactful skill a salesperson can develop.
Influence Mastery Lab
The job title doesn't say sales. The business still depends on it.
Two days of instructor-led work for the people who help someone decide, every day, without ever thinking of themselves as salespeople. Built on the same research as our sales program and rewritten for conversations nobody calls sales. Every person in the room gets a before score and an after score.
In-person or virtual
Plenty of jobs end in a yes or a no without anyone calling it a sale. We teach a process built for the moment someone decides.
What Happens in the Room
Some of the most important conversations in your organization happen with people who would never call themselves salespeople. Someone walks in undecided, asks a few questions, and walks out either committed or gone. The person on your side of the desk is good at their job. Nobody ever taught them that this part of it is a skill.
That covers a lot of seats. The admissions or financial aid counselor walking a family through a big decision. The preschool director giving a tour to a parent who has already seen three other schools. The member service rep at a credit union when a member asks about a loan. The treatment coordinator at a med spa, dental office or physical therapy clinic presenting a plan the patient pays for out of pocket. The senior living counselor walking a family through a move nobody wanted to make.
This is not a lecture. There are slides, a workbook you fill in as you go, and live role plays throughout, run by facilitators who have spent decades in these conversations themselves. Most of the two days is you doing the work rather than watching someone else do it.
People leave understanding why some of these conversations go well and others quietly don't. The AI practice afterward exists for one reason: to make sure that change sticks.
The material comes out of research on what the highest performers do differently, which turns out to be less about what they say and more about what they notice. You will learn how people make decisions, what moves them, and how to adjust while the conversation is still happening.
Four stages. Connect, Discover, Align, Commit.
The stages don't change. How you interact with people inside them changes with every person who walks in.
Connect
Most people greet everyone the same way and hope for chemistry. In the first few minutes you'll learn to read what this particular person needs from you and adjust how you show up, so they trust you before you've explained a thing.
Discover
The usual mistake is answering the question they asked instead of finding out what's behind it. You'll learn to ask the questions that surface what is really driving the decision: the worry, the deadline, the person at home who also gets a vote.
Align
This is where people quietly drift away. Everything gets explained in the order it's printed in the brochure, and the person nods politely. They leave saying they'll think about it, you're sure it went well, and you never hear from them again. You'll learn to wait until you know what matters to them, then explain only that, in the words they used to tell you.
Commit
Most people in these roles would rather not ask. So they hand over a brochure and hope. You'll learn to make the next step feel like the natural end of a good conversation, work through hesitation without pressure, and read the signals that say it's time.
The discipline that changes everything.
Every conversation runs on a wavelength, which is a mix of words, emotions, intentions and signals. Most people stay locked on their own frequency: what they need to explain, what they're required to cover, how they're coming across.
High performers learn to tune into the other person's wavelength and stay there.
That shift, from your wavelength to theirs, is the foundation of Influence Mastery Lab. It's simple to understand, but hard to maintain. Our default settings keep pulling us back to our own frequency.
So throughout this program, you'll practice a single, repeatable discipline: the Wavelength Check.
"Whose wavelength am I on right now?"
You will drift. Everyone drifts. The skill is catching it inside the same conversation, instead of an hour later when it's too late to do anything about it.
This is the shift we train: your wavelength flexing to meet theirs.
What You'll Learn
A structured method for the conversations that end in a decision. Not a script.
Influence Mastery Lab teaches a repeatable process that adapts to the person in front of you.
You'll learn to read how different people decide, and adjust how you communicate while the conversation is still happening.
You'll ask better questions, staying curious long enough to find out what matters before you explain anything.
You'll handle hesitation and objections as information rather than rejection, and respond in ways that build trust and move things forward.
By the end, you'll have a method that works in any conversation where someone has to decide.
How It's Measured
You'll know exactly where you started, and how far you've come.
The Influence Mastery Index puts each participant into twenty situations they will recognize from their own week, and scores how they handle them. They take it again after training. The gap between the two is the answer to "did that work", which is a question most companies never get to ask.
The results break down by person and by skill, which is where the surprises usually are.
"We think it went well" stops being the best available evidence.
How It's Sustained
The workshop ends. The practice doesn't.
Every participant gets a role-play partner that never gets tired of you. It plays the parent who has already toured three schools, the member who says they'll think about it, the patient who stops listening once they hear the price. It pushes back. You get told immediately what worked.
Practice as much as you want. Be terrible as often as you need to be. Nobody sees the attempts you're not proud of, because you choose which ones to submit for scoring.
This is training that practices back.
Hit the benchmarks and you certify. Miss them and you know precisely which stage you are losing it in.
Your managers get a dashboard rather than a project. It shows who is practicing, who is improving, and who has gone quiet. Nobody has to build a coaching plan. A manager's whole job is making sure people practice, and the dashboard turns that into a two-minute check.
Format
Two formats. Identical content, identical assessment.
In-Person Workshop
Two consecutive days on-site with your team. Intensive and immersive by design. People practice on each other, so the awkward conversations happen where nothing is at stake yet.
Virtual Workshop
Five sessions of three hours, spread across one week. Built for teams that are spread out, or for front lines that can't be off the floor for two straight days.
Both formats include:
- ·Pre-work and the Influence Mastery Index assessment
- ·Equivalent of two full days of live, instructor-led training with extensive role-play practice
- ·Post-training IMI re-bench
- ·Ongoing AI role-play and certification access after training ends
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